{"id":247,"date":"2010-09-05T01:46:00","date_gmt":"2010-09-05T01:46:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/?p=247"},"modified":"2017-10-02T21:07:32","modified_gmt":"2017-10-03T01:07:32","slug":"how-to-be-happy-no-matter-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/?p=247","title":{"rendered":"How to: be happy no matter what"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Say yes to a ridiculous idea.<\/p>\n<p>Inhale deeply the scent of a beloved pet.<\/p>\n<p>Walk barefoot on the beach.<\/p>\n<p>Remember all the times you never thought you\u2019d make it this far.<\/p>\n<p>Ask a small child to help you paint your toenails.<\/p>\n<p>Dance to that one song&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Take a nap.<\/p>\n<p>Do something creative.<\/p>\n<p>Have something wonderful read aloud to you.<\/p>\n<p>Wear a shortish dress to show off your long legs. Accept all compliments graciously and with a wide smile.<\/p>\n<p>Treat yourself. Maybe to ice-cream. Or fresh flowers.<\/p>\n<p>Give away love everywhere and any way you can.<\/p>\n<p>Go to the farmer&#8217;s market and buy a pint of strawberries, then eat them quietly in your living room when you are all by yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Make funny faces at very small children when their parents aren&#8217;t looking.<\/p>\n<p>Work out. Not to be skinny, but because becoming strong will make you feel powerful and confident in so many other ways.<\/p>\n<p>Show up even if you don\u2019t know what to say.<\/p>\n<p>Water the garden.<\/p>\n<p>Take time off. Travel. Meet strangers where and how they live; get a larger perspective of the world and its people and your place in it.<\/p>\n<p>Read an old love letter as a reminder that you have been adored.<\/p>\n<p>Sit with the ocean or under a huge old oak.<\/p>\n<p>Want what you want just because you want it.<\/p>\n<p>Compliment a total stranger.<\/p>\n<p>Buy one bar of lovely dark chocolate and eat one tiny square a day like it is the secret to life and liberty.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211;<\/p>\n<p>Care to add to the list? What makes you happy no matter what? Let\u2019s make a list we just can\u2019t help but love!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Say yes to a ridiculous idea. Inhale deeply the scent of a beloved pet. Walk barefoot on the beach. Remember all the times you never thought you\u2019d make it this far. Ask a small child to help you paint your toenails. Dance to that one song&#8230; Take a nap. Do something creative. Have something wonderful &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/?p=247\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">How to: be happy no matter what<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5282,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[10,2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=247"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5283,"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions\/5283"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5282"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.somewhereinnj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}